Me: Dey I am confused in doing this.

Friend: Beep, Beep, Beep* you really want to do X and want Y to happen in future?

Me: mmm… NO.

Friend: Then beep don’t do it.(End of argument)

For me it will be like a punch in face which will push my inner self out and make me look at myself and ask and realize and return back. This kind of argument is short and effective.

*Beep- Nice harsh words.

*Friend-Parithi.

Self referencing automaton